What to tell your school districts about autism and violence

Dear Readers,

My friend Jill, who writes at Yeah. Good Times. has given all of us a tremendous gift.  In response to the tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary, she has written a brilliant letter explaining autism to her local school district and she has invited us to share it.

Jill’s entire post can be found here.

In the meantime, I feel so passionately about distributing this information to every teacher, counselor, parent, family, human being that I’m re-posting the entire letter below (with permission from Jill of course!)

Please, please, please share this.  Don’t do it for my Alex, don’t do it just for your kid or neighbor or student.  Do it for ALL kids everywhere.  Because every step toward greater understanding is a step toward peace.

Thanks for reading,

Cathy K.

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Dear (school) community:

There has been much discussion online and in the news about the connection between the Connecticut school shooting and the fact that the shooter may have been diagnosed with autism.  As our families and our community discuss this issue and try to find a reason for this heartbreaking tragedy, I feel that it is very important to remember the following:

There is no connection between planned, violent behavior and an autism spectrum diagnosis of any kind.

Autism is not a mental illness; it is a developmental disability.  Many autistic people may have emotional regulation problems, which are impulsive expressions of frustration and anger, that are immediate and disorganized.  They may lash out with threatening statements or behaviors, but these behaviors are impulsive reactions, they are not deliberate or organized plans.  Once the situation has been diffused, the behaviors will stop.

What happened in Connecticut required methodical planning of a deliberate and tremendously violent act; this is not typical behavior of an autistic person.

Right now we are all struggling to find a reason why this kind of atrocity would happen, and we can speculate about the mental state of the shooter; about gun control laws; about the current state of our country’s mental health system, or about whatever else might help us make some sense out of this.

Please know, and please tell your children, that even if the shooter was autistic, autism is not the explanation for this tragedy.

If anybody has any questions about autism, please do not hesitate to contact me.

Thank you very much for your time,

Your name here

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