Never Assume Anything

autism home rescue 07012012

Today I am grateful for:

  • A slow ride down the expressway to work.  I was traveling behind a green sedan driven by a heavily tattooed, grandfatherly man in a hometown baseball cap.  On his bumper were several stickers including “Marine for Life” and “Purple Heart.”  And in the back window?  The cutest collection of stuffed animals ever assembled—including several critters from Hannah’s personal zoo on her top bunk bed.  It reminded me that no matter how much we may think we know about the world or about anyone else, we should never assume anything.
  • Aubrey, my beloved.  As I type this, she is at Children’s Hospital with Alex who is undergoing a fairly routine GI procedure.  She’s texting me the “play by play” and reassuring me that Alex is doing just fine with all that’s going on.  No matter how much time goes by, I remain forever grateful that she has come into my life, that she has glided so expertly into the role of second mom to my kids, and for the mutual love relationship that has developed between the three of them.  I could never have wished for anything more.
  • My mother, who in dying gave me the gift of knowing permanence.  She is still with me every day.  And she still gives me the opportunity to know her better.  As my life moves on, I think about her in new ways, I feel her presence and I see the signs she sends me.  I miss her as a living being I can hug, but – at least in my times of calmness and clarity—I understand without a doubt that she lives on and that one day I will meet her again.  Two years ago I had no idea I would come to this place.  And I’m sure the journey will continue.

I am grateful for…

the chance to live without assumptions…

the freedom to experience my life…

and the opportunity to learn from it over & over again.