Thanksgiving is one day, but this year I was challenged to declare my thankfulness for each of the 30 days in November. Here is my list so far (which will continue to update until December 1st):
Day 2: I am thankful that Halloween was “postponed” so Alex could go trick-or-treating with his sister.
Day 3: I am thankful for music & how great songs endure for generations. This morning Hannah was telling me her favorite singer/dancer is Michael Jackson & we were singing songs I loved in high school!
… pretty young things repeat after me, say na na na…
Day 4: I am thankful for the people who “get” my son & know how to best take care of him. And I am also thankful for being able to have patience & not bite the heads off the people who are clueless in that area. … sigh…
Day 5: I am thankful for “dream catchers.” Since I got one from the craft store for Hannie, all her dreams have been peaceful. But more importantly, I am thankful for all those “good luck charms” and “magic things” that somehow help when I need a little extra faith.
Day 6 (election day): I am thankful I live in a country where I can speak my mind & I can vote. I am also thankful for my 7 year old’s compassion for others. On the way to the polls this morning, she said:
“If anyone asks, I’m gonna tell them I’m voting for Obama because my friend Ethan (who has autism) loves Elmo. And also because I want my Mom to be able to marry the woman she loves!”
Day 7: I am thankful all that fuss is over. Now onto the business of making the world a better place for the kids!
Day 8: I am thankful for forgiveness. As in, all those little moments where someone we love forgives our crankiness or frustration & inspires us to try again.
Day 9: I am thankful for choice.
Day 10: I am thankful for childhood friendships which endure across the years. Being able to “share my happy” with my dear friend & kindred spirit Linda today made me feel so lucky & blessed!
Day 11: I am thankful my body works more or less the way I want it to & I am healthy. I am thankful I can run, eat, laugh, stretch, play and enjoy it all. And I’m also most thankful to have found someone to share life with who appreciates the same things!
Day 12 (veteran’s day): I am thankful for the folks in the military, past & present. All the time I am discussing, debating, advocating & throwing my opinions around, I am well aware that without their service, I might not have even the freedom to write a list like this.
Day 13: I am thankful for the innocence of children. This morning while I was digging through a closet to find something, an old note to Hannah from “Santa” fell out of a bag of decorations. Hannah picked it up, read it and asked with wide eyes:
“Is Santa Claus REAL??”
I paused… then asked, “What do you think honey?”
“I think he’s real and he’s AWESOME!”
Day 14: I am thankful for technology. When I finally got up the guts to check my financial tracking software program this morning, I learned that I’m way overbudget. But not as overbudget as I thought I actually was. And for some reason, I’m totally cool with that. So cool, in fact, that I hopped right on over to Facebook to tell 832 people about it.
…hmmm… Maybe I’m actually thankful for caffeine and therapy…
Day 17: I am thankful for do-overs. As in, the second chances granted by the bigger kids when we were the littler kids and messed up during a game. I discovered do-overs come in handy in lots of situations… relationships, parenting, careers, cooking, homes, haircuts… you name the flub, I bet you can change it with a deep breath and a compassionate do-over.
Day 18: I am thankful for Sunday afternoon down time with nothing to do but snuggle in bed. Day 19: I am thankful for caffeine on Mondays.
Day 20: I am thankful there are alternatives to Saran Wrap. Seriously? You’re gonna rip right in the middle, stick to yourself & make me cover the bowl with six pieces? But you can’t ever stick directly to the bowl now can you? Grrrrrrr….
Day 21: I am thankful for the kind of love that is simply being present. Yesterday I began the heartbreaking process of having Alex classified as a “disabled child.” When my anxiety peaked after a long day of paperwork & questions & trying to figure out Thanksgiving preparation, it all tumbled out on the phone with Aubrey. Instead of fixing or rationalizing or explaining, Aubrey simply asked:
“Do you want me to go with you tonight to see Alex?”
I am so thankful for that kind of loving kindness. Aubrey’s presence in my life just makes everything better.
Day 22 (thanksgiving): I am thankful for holiday celebrations with my children.