What I Did in 2012.

Just a few of the things on my big list of 2012.  Stay tuned for 2013.  It’s gonna be a great year.

In 2012, with a guardian angel watching over, I …

  • Took pride in my new home.
  • Planted things.
  • Helped people on the phone.
  • Advocated.
  • Journeyed with Alex to residential treatment.
  • Re-discovered the connection I have with my son.
  • Packed a lot of boxes.
  • And unpacked them too.
  • Sold the first house I ever bought.
  • Framed Hannah’s artwork.
  • Created an awesome room for my first/second grader.
  • Adopted another gecko.
  • Traveled.
  • Lived a whole year without my mother.
  • Said goodbye to my mother’s house.
  • Started cooking dinner again.
  • Wrote a lot.  Wrote poetry too.
  • Cried a lot.
  • Started running again.
  • Finalized a divorce.
  • Made new friends.
  • Went to the theater.
  • Invested in things I care about.
  • Made contributions.
  • Gave gifts.
  • Fell more deeply in love with an amazing woman.
  • Fell in love with her two chihuahuas.
  • Got engaged.
  • Celebrated Thanksgiving with Alex and Hannah and Aubrey.
  • Reclaimed my family’s collection of Christmas ornaments.
  • Added new ornaments for my new family.
  • Expanded my vision for the future.
  • Started planning a wedding on the beach.

For all these things, big and small, I feel very grateful.

Best wishes for a Happy Healthy New Year dear readers!

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Daily Prompt: Play Lexicographer

I love the WordPress Daily Prompt.  Especially when I can highlight some of my favorite ridiculous bloggy writing love from the past.   Several months ago I made up the most delicious word to describe an awesome Alex-Mom moment. 

The word? 

Baskesoccaling. 

The story behind it? 

Click on the picture of my beautiful boy to read on.

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Weekly Photo Challenge: Geometry

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Alex’s bowl-and-plate kitchen floor art.

Fireworks for autism!

Watch all the way through to the hug at the end and you will feel inspired.

I have trouble with transitions….

… and a thousand other things.  But it’s all good because I’m human and I deserve to be loved for the individual, quirky person I am.  Which brings me to the topic at hand:

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Today I am grateful for:

Acceptance

Plain and simple. 

So simple, the beauty of it made me cry. 

We were away for the weekend.  When it came to Sunday morning, my anxiety was peaking.  I woke up and said to Aubrey:

“I’m feeling nervous and out of sorts.  I don’t know why.”

She put her arm around me, gently kissed my head and replied:

“You always feel that way before a transition.  It’ll be okay.”

I felt the tension I was holding in the back of my neck release ever so slightly and a tear escaped.  It is true.  I have trouble with transitions.  I have anxiety about making changes, doing new things.  That’s just me.  

But the relief I felt from her acknowledgement was like that feeling of soothing a sore throat with a cup of tea, or settling an upset tummy with a peppermint stick.

To be known…

to be accepted…

to be validated for the quirky, challenging, difficult things…

Indeed, to be loved for them as part of the whole person I am!

… well, that is priceless and beyond the words I have. 

It’s everything…

it’s safety…

it’s love…

it’s freedom… 

It is, simply put, just the best.

So Aubrey, thank you for knowing me like you do, and for helping me transition.  You are better than peppermint.  I am grateful.

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“Be Like Buddy” launches this week!!

I’m going to keep this short & sweet.  Once upon a time in the land of autism families there lived a Dad.  An ordinary Dad, who was married to an ordinary Mom, who had an ordinary… well, not so ordinary Son.  When he discovered his son wasn’t living in the land of the typical but was going to lead his family in a new direction because he had Autism, this Dad did something extraordinary.  He put his desire to give his son the chance to experience the world in the most full, real way possible ahead of his regular Dad worries.  And he created “Be Like Buddy.”

One video, one skill, five minutes.  These are new, but they are already making big changes in the lives of ordinary families with extraordinary children.  And you can get yours for free at the online launch party this Thursday and Friday.  There will be tons of free stuff on the “Be Like Buddy” website (you can learn more on their facebook page or by following them on Twitter, too!)

Being an ordinary Mom myself, I know how many “new things with possibility” float by our desktops & kitchen counters every day.  Yeah, it’s a lot, it’s true.  But trust me– “Be Like Buddy” is one of those things you’ll want to have and sharePlease help me spread the word and tell your ABA therapists and teachers and family members about “Be Like Buddy.”  Then come to the online launch party and get the videos for yourself!

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Be Like Buddy!

autism home rescue 081720121Ohmigosh have I got news for you! 

You all know how I love finding good autism resources to share, right?  Well stay tuned for more information on my latest discovery:

Be Like Buddy!

 

Created by the father of a child with autism, the “Be Like Buddy” educational videos and resources are right on target. 

I mean…  RIGHT.  ON.   

As in– the guy who put the videos together knows autism.  The website creators know autism.  The folks who made the educational materials know autism.  The entire team– plus the absolutely adorable and loveable puppet named Buddy who stars in the videos– really understand and connect with families like mine– and YOURS too!

Stay tuned to Autism Home Rescue for more info next week on how YOU can get absolutely free  resources for autism parents, educators & professionals this month at the online launch party for Be Like Buddy”

In the meantime, please go to the Be Like Buddy” facebook page and Like them to make sure you stay in the loop! 

And while you’re on Facebook, dear loyal readers, please Like Autism Home Rescue’s facebook page too!  (see the handy dandy button to the right on this page!)

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